Well, I suppose that tallin and I are busy people, yes... but then, we didn't necessarily (any one of us) settle on any kind of /time/. It's one thing to say 'we should get together sometime' and another thing to say 'I'm free at X and Y and Z, are you available any of these times?' You /also/ sound like a busy person (I suppose grad school and nazi TA's and work and soforth do that to a person, as well as classes and parenthood and work and (in tallin's case, software development with deadlines will /also/ do this to a person.) So the long and the short of this is, if you want to set a time, set one. We can get together for coffee sometime or something, even if it's at the UB Starbucks early next semester after class/work schedules have been finalized.