Rest in Peace Little One

[hkellick]

At 10:10 PM on November 13, 2001, Merlin "Hot Stuff" Kellick died. He was only about four months old. We had had him for near three weeks.
Cause of death: massive trauma to his abdomen and organs inside. He was stepped on... by me.

malytwotails once said that when little kittens die they go to a place where dead children went and entertained them and made them smile. Something about over the rainbow.. I don't remember all the details. I pray that that is true. That little hot stuff is somewhere making someone else as happy as he made us when he was here.

I'm so upset I can't even begin to describe it. I can't put words to my sorrow.
I know I can't blame myself.. accidents happen.. but in some way I do.. I killed him... and even though he'll forgive me (the vet swears he never knew what had happened) and you'll all forgive me, I'm not sure I can forgive myself.

I can't think of much else to say but this..
Rest in Peace, Hot Stuff... you weren't here very long, but you brought alot of joy into our lives and we loved you. Thank you for that.

Comments

*snugs*

[janinedog]

I'm sorry LITE. *snugs* But yes, he will be alright. And it's called Rainbow Bridge. A really nice concept if you ask me...I believe in it.

http://www.petloss.com/poems/maingrp/rainbowb.htm

[zorkian]

*HUGS* I'm so sorry to hear that, dude. I agree with your friend. I believe that all animals--cats, dogs, horses, ESPECIALLY cute little kittens that have done nothing except bring happiness and joy into people's lives--will go to whatever is on the other side of this existence. If there's a heaven and hell they're destined to heaven.

[malytwotails.livejournal.com]

*rushes over to lite and grabs him, pulling him close in a hug* Oh, dearheart, I lost a kitten the same way (my bf at the time was the one that stepped on my baby), and I'll never forget that awful night, we couldn't make it to emergency and I had to help Ashes to the summerlands myself.
It still haunts me, I'm sure it always will, in a way, but I've had the time to reflect on all we did for him when he was still around, and in just recently losing another baby pet, have come to my own terms with life and loss.
I'll spare you the details, but a few months ago one of my baby rats had a sudden resperitory attack and died in the car as she was being rushed down to my vet clinic by my fiancee, he had to witness her suffering and I was the one who pronounced her dead, he and I had to spend a while in a room alone with her, and even though we didn't have her for very long, she still found a small place in my heart, and so we mourned her just the same, I even made http://www.dragonneo.com/greinne/TN/byechi.jpg for her, just to always remember.
When I lost Ashes (my kitten who died like yours), I didn't know what to do. My other kitty Spirit who had just finally accepted him wandered around looking for him, she didn't know what to do either, we could only sit together and miss our baby. Unfortunately, my boyfriend at the time was less than compassionate and blamed the kitten for his own demise, not the fact that he had been irresponsible and left the door open so said kitten could wander the house, you remember Vessper, and you remember how awful he was.
But in time, as it always does, life went on. We ended up going to the animal shelter and rescuing an older kitty who had 13 front toes and probably wouldn't have been adopted, and so Eclipse came home to Spirit, and the two became fast friends. Ashes' short life on earth and sudden demise was a tragedy, yes, but he allowed the room and the circumstances for Eclipse to be saved, and in doing such, he enriched our lives even through death.
And a lesson was learned too, of course the obvious "watch your feet", but moreso, a deeper lesson, one I believe Ashes was brought to me to do - that all life, no matter how short, or fuzzy, or cute, or seemingly small, can touch all of the life around it in the most beautiful way.
Chi-Chian, my baby rat, did the same. She and Solistice were little pals, and when we lost Chi, Sol just wandered around her cage all lonely. We've since integrated our little Sol in with our big girls, and she and Pixie are two round peas in a pod, and I don't know if that bond would have been made, had tinyChi been around still.

I deal with dying pets every day at work, at first it was hard, and yes, you do kind of get calloused to having to restrain pets for euthanasia, and it doesn't bother me any more to "tag n' bag", but the one thing I'll never get used to is the owners crying. Their pain, and more importantly, your pain, is my pain. My heart aches for what you're feeling now, even though we don't know each other as individuals, I can at least know you as another life.

[packet.livejournal.com]

*cries and snuggles tight* I'm so sorry, I know what it's like to lose a baby pet... very upsetting... but don't blame yourself. *snugs tight and gives you a kiss on the cheek*

[rhayden.livejournal.com]

I've never lost a pet, just had to give up several, so I can identify with your pain. I'm so sorry LITE. It hurts, I know. But your kitty was happy at your home, and the two of you had good times together. That's what counts.

*hug and a cookie*

*snugglies and winces*

[dawnstar.livejournal.com]

I can only imagine what you're feeling, hon. It's one of the hardest things, to lose a pet. I lost a puppy when I was younger -- hit by a car when chasing after another dog thaat was across the street. My father blamed himself for a long time because he was the one who was watching him. But it wasn't his fault, and this wasn't yours. Kittens LOVE to be underfoot. This one just didn't get out of the way fast enough.

Peace be with Merlin, and may he move on to an even happier place in the next life. :)