I totally understand you feeling this way, and IANAD but the information we've been given here in Denmark is that fully vaccinated people can still spread it, but they are much less likely too (at least with the vaccines given here - mostly Moderna and Pfizer). The mask mandate has been lifted here per last month, as more than 70% have gotten the first shot and more than 50% are fully vaccinated.

So while I completely understand your feelings of anxiety, I just wanted to let you know that CDC have to say that those with vaccinations can spread the virus, because there is a non-zero possibility of it - but it's fortunately rare.