I think the best way to guage it is to figure out what you are like when you get annoying ;) Which is a lot more like 'self righteous' than 'domineering asshole' (1 vs 8) so i'd put you more at a 1 ..

Yeah, I realize that is an offensive way to guage it but whatever works right? :) I did the same thing to guage myself, anyway, tried to figure out what my extremes are.