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HK ([personal profile] hkellick) wrote2005-02-03 11:00 am
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*annoyed*

Can I just say how GLAD I am that Katie is no longer camping out in Kristen's living room?

Nngnng.
They say you don't just get married to your S.O., but your S.O.'s family. I have never seen a bigger reason NOT to marry Kristen :p

[Edit] The last statement is not totally fair, but I did feel the need to justify it slightly. If I marry Kristen, that means I become a part of their family. This means less that I'm welcome to come to family events, so much as expected (especially with K's family) and.. I don't like most of K's family. K's sister is a PITA. K's mom is.. strangely psychotic at times. K's dad is OK and I have no beef with K's brother (though only because I don't see him as much as K's sister, I suspect..)
I know my family has issues too, but jesus on a pork rind :p

[identity profile] coderlemming.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 06:19 pm (UTC)(link)
mmm... Jesus on a pork rind...

I dunno, I think that's a pretty fair thing for you to say. Of course, if that were your only reason not to marry her, I'd say you'd need to get over it. It's certainly a fair thing to consider though.

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. Jesus on a pork rind.

With 20% less holy salt.

Understand that, at this point in time, I'm thinking along the lines of a future, a couple years off, where K and I might get married. Certainly nowhere in 2005.
It's more... a realistic fear that if I join the Tozer family I may regret it at least as much, if not more, than if she joins the Kellick family.

[identity profile] circa.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, you do become part of their family, but you're not marrying them. If it was so awful, I'm pretty sure Andy wouldn't have married me, considering the family he was getting involved in - I guess it depends on how much the person is willing to put their own new family unit ahead of their (what becomes in effect) extended family. Mind you, I married into a nice set, so I dunno. He probably has more idea on this than me *shrug*

[identity profile] lwoodbloo.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh god. Please tell me someone didn't take that seriously, H.

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 06:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Not yet, but I didn't want K to see this and misunderstand.
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[personal profile] phoenixsong 2005-02-03 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
And I kind of figured he didn't mean it that way, but I've been a crankybutt all week. Hormones + overtired + sibling who has never, ever accepted "no" for an answer to anything = very long week.

"Weird" doesn't begin to describe what it will be like having her down here.

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
And you thought having her down here would be a good thing?

I'm not seeing it. Not seeing it at all. If she can't stop being a PITA then you kooky kats will continue to fight and I can't see your relationship getting BETTER for it (besides, distance makes life easier. Trust me.)
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[personal profile] phoenixsong 2005-02-03 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, I'm allowed to hope!

And not that I'm blaming you, but given what I've seen this week, I suspect it's something about the two of you together setting each other off. (Not that things are perfect between her and I, but more tense.)

Now, the kicker is going to be, I'm going to be expected to put her in our wedding party. *headdesk*

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm becoming more and more convinced that eloping may be the best way :p

Seriously, though. I dunno... I don't necessarily feel that I need to put my family in my wedding, especially if everyone's being a twat.
No offense, but I'm seriously reconsidering the idea of Josh as best man. (or.. whatever we use.) I guess we'll see when the time arrives.

And, yeah, I think it's something the two of us do together that sets us off, but I'm not sure what. I don't think I was being too assholish, just not as friendly (and not half as easy to walk over.)
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[personal profile] phoenixsong 2005-02-03 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think I was being too assholish, just not as friendly (and not half as easy to walk over.)

And for someone who does not take "no" for an answer, you can see how this would cause problems, yes? s:)
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[personal profile] kareila 2005-02-03 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)
If you decide to get hitched in Vegas, I am totally there. :)

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
What if we elope to some place else...
Boston's looking lovely this time of year!
... OK, I lie...
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[personal profile] kareila 2005-02-03 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, lovely if you like sleet & dirty piles of snow.

But you said you were going to wait a while. :)

[identity profile] lwoodbloo.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I got your email, babe! I totally sympathize.

I was just waiting for the oversensitive lj crew to stomp on him with both feets!

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
?

DO NOT STOMP ON MY FEETS!

[identity profile] lwoodbloo.livejournal.com 2005-02-04 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
hahahahahah! Dude. You are teh rawkest
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[personal profile] phoenixsong 2005-02-03 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Heh...when it comes to this stuff, I AM the oversenstive LJ crew. s;)

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
What are you two dorks talking about?
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[personal profile] phoenixsong 2005-02-03 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Will tell you tonight, it started with one of [livejournal.com profile] lwoodbloo's posts last week.

[identity profile] lite.livejournal.com 2005-02-03 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
.. OK.
Tell me tell me tell me...

... but now i go home, so you can tell me over dinner :)