Grrrr!!!

[hkellick]

My mother, in her infinite fairness (*SNORT*) has decided that if I'm going to keep living under her room, I need to spend at least part of the weekend helping her. How dare I have a social life, apparently.
See the problem is that she's had some work to be done for a while switching her summer and winter wardrobe and apparently I'm the one that needs to help her. I had mentioned I was going to go up to Rochester, but she didn't think I meant the whole weekend.
We fought. She complained I was never around. I said I *WAS* around 5 days out of the week. Why didn't we get things done. No, says she, she's tired after work so that won't do.
We fought for a while. I knew she was getting mad at me being with Kristen every weekend. Mind you i was home Monday and we did NOTHING all day. Why couldn't we do it then?
Anyways, we've come to an agreement. I won't leave until Saturday sometime, which gives me.. about a day with Kristen.
I'm not happy. 1 day is better than nothing, but still.. *steams*
So.. yeah.. I'm a pissed off LITE right now :p
She better not change the terms on me again or I may just kill her.

Comments

[dawnstar.livejournal.com]

*hugs muches and was hoping to see you tomorrow night* :(

I'm sorry things aren't working at all as you planned. :(

[lite.livejournal.com]

Eh. 1 day is better than no days, I guess.
Not sure if I was going to see peoples tonight anyways. Tonight was going to be.. odd. I guess that problem's taken care of.

[phoenixsong]

*nod* Tonight was supposed to be us-time, before I left for work at 11. And since I don't have an extra building key to give him, getting both of us back home -- even if he was interested in going out at that time -- would have been difficult at best.

[lite.livejournal.com]

Realistically (assuming dawnstar comes back and read this soon), the entire time I'll be there will probably be us-time.
Not sure what we're going to do and we may choose to invite others along, but at this time we'll probably be antisocial dorks and just spend time among ourselves.

[circa.livejournal.com]

It sounds like she's getting jealous of yourself and Kristen, and is maybe scared of the inevitability of losing you? I don't know your family remember, so I may be wrong, but I think you'd be best moving out when you can. From my experience my mother demanded me to do things to keep me from having time with Andy even AFTER we were married.

[lite.livejournal.com]

You may be right, but I'm not sure that's it.
If I had to guess, it's just that I haven't been around to do work she expects me to do and she's only willing to do it when I want to be with Kristen (weekends), because she's too tired and busy to do it during the week.
Not fair, but I think that's the root of it.
And I do need to get out of here. I know it. I don't think that after I leave my mom's still going to demand my time as much. She'll be shocked if she does. Especially if we move out of state.