On Kristen and Me

Alright, I haven't been posting alot lately, but if you've been keeping up with one of the two of us, you know something's been terribly wrong. So now that the two of us have talked it through, I'd like to discuss things, for those who are concerned about me/us and for my own records.
As a note.. if any of you think I got this wrong, tell me and I'll correct. Especially you, ecwoodburn. Most of your side comes from our discussion last night and I may have gotten this wrong.
( Long Discussion Ahead )

So.. where are we now, ask you? Well... we don't know. We have talked. We both know we miss each other and we want to give each other a second chance. We're going to somehow meet this weekend, whether it'll be a weekend in Rochester or a one day day-date to do dinner and a movie or whatever.. but we're going to see if we both feel comfortable giving this a second chance and trying again.
I do know one thing.. if we do try again, I think I need to be more accepting of help. A few times, i thought I knew what I was doing when I was screwing up badly. Some of that will still happen, but it would not hurt to use some of the resources around me.
I had an idea and I'm wondering if any of you gentlemen are interested. I propose a livejournal communittee like chickchat, a place where any guy can talk privately.. the topic will be.. our relationships with our significant others (Though, single men would be accepted too, if they want to be a part of this). I just think it might be an untapped resource to talk to some of you guys who have dealt with some of the issues that some of us guys are dealing with now. Are any of you gentlemen interested in this?

EDIT: I have created guychat for just these purposes. If you want in, just comment to this and I will send you an invite.